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崔玉涛图解家庭育儿2
《崔玉涛图解家庭育儿2:母乳与配方粉喂养》内容简介:婴幼儿主要就做两件事吃奶和排泄,奶分母乳和奶粉,《崔玉涛图解家庭育儿2:母乳与配方粉喂养》告诉父母们应该如何给孩子科学的按需喂奶,如何根据孩子的排泄物来调整喂奶策略。崔玉涛医生是一个极其有效率和有条理的人,经过他本人数次的校审之后,相信《崔玉涛图解家庭育儿2:母乳与配方粉喂养》能让妈妈们能够做到开心育儿,养育出一个健康开心的宝宝。 -
崔玉涛图解家庭育儿1
《崔玉涛图解家庭育儿1:直面小儿发热》围绕小儿发热的具体表现,纠正了一些发热起因和降温方法的误区,首先介绍避免用药的物理降温法,然后告诉家长如何针对不同情况用不同药物降温,甚至详细到如何配比药物。崔玉涛医生是一个极其有效率和有条理的人,经过他本人数次的校审之后,相信《崔玉涛图解家庭育儿2:母乳与配方粉喂养》能让妈妈们能够做到开心育儿,养育出一个健康开心的宝宝。 -
Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother
An awe-inspiring, often hilarious, and unerringly honest story of one mother's exercise in extreme parenting, revealing the rewards-and the costs-of raising her children the Chinese way. All decent parents want to do what's best for their children. What Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother reveals is that the Chinese just have a totally different idea of how to do that. Western parents try to respect their children's individuality, encouraging them to pursue their true passions and providing a nurturing environment. The Chinese believe that the best way to protect your children is by preparing them for the future and arming them with skills, strong work habits, and inner confidence. Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother chronicles Chua's iron-willed decision to raise her daughters, Sophia and Lulu, her way-the Chinese way-and the remarkable results her choice inspires. Here are some things Amy Chua would never allow her daughters to do: have a playdate be in a school play complain about not being in a school play not be the #1 student in every subject except gym and drama play any instrument other than the piano or violin not play the piano or violin The truth is Lulu and Sophia would never have had time for a playdate. They were too busy practicing their instruments (two to three hours a day and double sessions on the weekend) and perfecting their Mandarin. Of course no one is perfect, including Chua herself. Witness this scene: "According to Sophia, here are three things I actually said to her at the piano as I supervised her practicing: 1. Oh my God, you're just getting worse and worse. 2. I'm going to count to three, then I want musicality. 3. If the next time's not PERFECT, I'm going to take all your stuffed animals and burn them!" But Chua demands as much of herself as she does of her daughters. And in her sacrifices-the exacting attention spent studying her daughters' performances, the office hours lost shuttling the girls to lessons-the depth of her love for her children becomes clear. Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother is an eye-opening exploration of the differences in Eastern and Western parenting- and the lessons parents and children everywhere teach one another. 点击链接进入中文版: 我在美国做妈妈:耶鲁法学院教授的育儿经 -
下乡养儿
下乡养儿是一本我们从来没见过也无法归类的亲子书。在此之前,我们看到的个案都以成功者的面目出现。书里的孩子都是成功的,都上了哈佛耶鲁或北大清华;家长在书里也是成功的,拥有强大的内心、生活的智慧。 然而,《下乡育儿》里的角色却是软弱无力的。一对有社交障碍的夫妻,带着一个有心理问题的孩子。孩子连续换了几个小学都无法适应,结果辍学在家一年,最后变得连睡觉都害怕,因为总是噩梦连连,一家人晨昏颠倒,以至于很久都没见过太阳。书中的父母看上去懦弱无能,没有单位,从事的工作是出版业的兼职校对……作者不加隐讳地记录了一家人的焦虑、无能、怯懦与缺陷,记录了小家庭和外面世界的冲突、矛盾、妥协与算计。这种对自己的诚实,是很少见的。 后来,因为作者的一位搞教育工作的朋友乔老师的建议,一家三口选择了下乡养儿。这不是我们熟悉的选择,但它却营造了一种陌生的语境。天天在乡下,普通儿童该做的事情——学习读书,有明确目的的游戏,一样都没有。天天做的,是买菜、做饭、洗衣、放羊这些我们成年人都不情愿为之的事情。这些事情,在都市父母的眼中,肯定觉得作者夫妇是要毁了这个孩子。然而一年的乡下生活改变了天天,也改变了作者夫妇,一家三口都长大了、正常了。 作者冯丽丽的文字像摄像机一样忠实记录着乡村生活的点点滴滴,以及孩子天天的细微变化。作者在书中没有推销观点,没有抱怨批评,虽然她有非常浓郁的情感,却一直控制着不去表达,不去说破。作者冷静、克制、琐细的笔法,很像那种昂贵的光学镜头,捕捉到我们肉眼看不见的细节。而那样的细节,正是令成人世界的我们思绪万千、心灵震颤的部分。 书中的乔老师给读者的印象最为深刻。有人感慨自己生活中怎么遇不见这样的好人,有人设想假如天天的父母没有遇见乔老师,孩子的状态还能否好转……也许,我们每个人的生活中并不缺少乔老师这样的人,甚至每个人都有成为乔老师的可能。天天的父母有幸遇见乔老师,是因为他们有幸没有像许多其他成年人那样自以为是、故步自封,他们能听得进去别人的话,能认真检讨自己,能有不依常规付诸行动的勇气。 现有的林林总总的育儿类图书为我们提供了种种解决之道、成功之钥,而本书作者一家三口,却为我们提供了生活的另一种可能。它别开生面地向我们展示了日常经验之外的情与景,痛与爱。
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